kawan:.

A friend has asked me about how to find or meet a friend '' for us ?''

i answered, [after i shutted my mouth in several minutes ] i didn't know the word that i should gave him nor to advised him.Beside, i really don't know what was friend meant to be that could i bought to him either. 

[the definition which what i mean]

Lately, 

among of anime storyline [ naruto, bleach, dragon ball ] or somewhat in jdrama [my boss my hero] always embedded with gore realism action, the implementation of friends bond still effective to be seen.

one will help another one and the circle goes around.

[kadang-kadang chapter yang tak logik pun ada unsur2 kawan saling tolong2 - merepek - ]

however, such the good elements , what i've been thinking , did not suitable meaning to which each individual needed for.

Instead,

i was wondering that there should be one word that can be used to clear the misunderstanding about the      - friends-definition - before. A man should '' meet '' before can be said as '' found '' the right person that we can tagging as '' A Friend ''.

Till on last friday, reflected by Caliph Ali R.a. words, he said that there were 3 purpose requirements to labelled the friend's term. [ A friend cannot be considered a friend until he is tested in three occasions ]

1.  in time of need

2.  behind your back

3.  after your death

too much 'blink' appeared in my mind lately and this entry stirred up wheeling my world.

then,

it makes me asked myself this question :

Do I fit the bill as a friend to my friends?